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Learning curve

Who looks outside, dreams; who looks inside, awakes. Jung

Today I realized that it is a real challenge for me to forgive myself for past mistakes.

What was the last thing you learned about yourself?

That I _______.

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I can be highly insecure and unsure about myself and instead of looking for self conviction i look to others opinions of me as validation

That I am too negative about myself.. I need to start giving myself a little more credit.

I distance myself to stop me from getting hurt. I find it hard to make myself vulnerable to people so am not very good at letting them into my heart fully. I'm very hot-and-cold relationship wise because I'm constantly weighing up whether or not the present happiness is worth the future pain.

That you cant always trust you heart, or trust in general. Love blinds you, and thats not always a good thing.A heart in the wrong hands could lead to misery. and ive learned that no matter how old you are love takes no prisioners.

That I should listen more in a conversation before my 2 cents are tossed in. And sometimes I sound like my mom, that was a hard 1 to admit right there.

I learned that I can't stand to be in my own head too long, and that I'm insecure to a fault. The two seem connected, as I can't even journal because I'm afraid someone else will find it.

I learned that sometimes its better to be alone then in bad company and that I have alot more learning to do.

I have finally learned, and have told myself that I am not the person I want to be yet. So I'm going to let myself go and find who I really am inside. :)

I recently learned that I have a great fear of romantic relationships, and my greatest fear for the future is not monetarily or career-oriented, but in the fact I will end up with the wrong person, completely unhappy for the rest of my life. Like my parents.
I think it's a fear which, now I have realized it, I can learn to overcome, so it can stop keeping me away from people.

I am often too stubborn to accept the help that I need.

It recently occurred to me that I have the capacity to love someone far beyond what I ever thought was possible for me. It scares me, because I didn't realize that I'd even had a line I went to before and wouldn't cross.

I have learned, that even though I make mistakes or partially burn a bridge, EVERY single day is a new start. To do things better than I did them the day before. To take advantage of more and build more bridges and make less mistakes.

That I don't have things as figured out as I originally thought. But I'm beginning to think that that's actually OK.

Adopted many of the traits which I despise in my parents. Mainly a need for control.

Trust too much.

I recently learned that feeling dramatic and overemotional is the drive behind my journaling. I've learned to accept this and not worry about how cliche and pretentious I might sound because it's effective in turning my melting pot thoughts into words.

RaveOnGirl

Learning curve

ProlificLaziness

I can be highly insecure and unsure about myself and instead of looking for self conviction i look to others opinions of me as validation

becked

That I am too negative about myself.. I need to start giving myself a little more credit.

MoonshoesMonkfish

I distance myself to stop me from getting hurt. I find it hard to make myself vulnerable to people so am not very good at letting them into my heart fully. I'm very hot-and-cold relationship wise because I'm constantly weighing up whether or not the present happiness is worth the future pain.

flyswithmanatees

That you cant always trust you heart, or trust in general. Love blinds you, and thats not always a good thing.A heart in the wrong hands could lead to misery. and ive learned that no matter how old you are love takes no prisioners.

marlajane

That I should listen more in a conversation before my 2 cents are tossed in. And sometimes I sound like my mom, that was a hard 1 to admit right there.

a_moore714

I learned that I can't stand to be in my own head too long, and that I'm insecure to a fault. The two seem connected, as I can't even journal because I'm afraid someone else will find it.

humanperson

I learned that sometimes its better to be alone then in bad company and that I have alot more learning to do.

AmaterasuOkamiSama

I have finally learned, and have told myself that I am not the person I want to be yet. So I'm going to let myself go and find who I really am inside. :)

theProtectress

Rasmatasmus

I am often too stubborn to accept the help that I need.

rutdager

It recently occurred to me that I have the capacity to love someone far beyond what I ever thought was possible for me. It scares me, because I didn't realize that I'd even had a line I went to before and wouldn't cross.

TheNuk

I have learned, that even though I make mistakes or partially burn a bridge, EVERY single day is a new start. To do things better than I did them the day before. To take advantage of more and build more bridges and make less mistakes.

penguinsinmyblood

That I don't have things as figured out as I originally thought. But I'm beginning to think that that's actually OK.

crazyheadmaize

Adopted many of the traits which I despise in my parents. Mainly a need for control.

stinkyhenry

Trust too much.

heartilation

I recently learned that feeling dramatic and overemotional is the drive behind my journaling. I've learned to accept this and not worry about how cliche and pretentious I might sound because it's effective in turning my melting pot thoughts into words.

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I can be highly insecure and unsure about myself and instead of looking for self conviction i look to others opinions of me as validation

That I am too negative about myself.. I need to start giving myself a little more credit.

I distance myself to stop me from getting hurt. I find it hard to make myself vulnerable to people so am not very good at letting them into my heart fully. I'm very hot-and-cold relationship wise because I'm constantly weighing up whether or not the present happiness is worth the future pain.

That you cant always trust you heart, or trust in general. Love blinds you, and thats not always a good thing.A heart in the wrong hands could lead to misery. and ive learned that no matter how old you are love takes no prisioners.

That I should listen more in a conversation before my 2 cents are tossed in. And sometimes I sound like my mom, that was a hard 1 to admit right there.

I learned that I can't stand to be in my own head too long, and that I'm insecure to a fault. The two seem connected, as I can't even journal because I'm afraid someone else will find it.

I learned that sometimes its better to be alone then in bad company and that I have alot more learning to do.

I have finally learned, and have told myself that I am not the person I want to be yet. So I'm going to let myself go and find who I really am inside. :)

I am often too stubborn to accept the help that I need.

It recently occurred to me that I have the capacity to love someone far beyond what I ever thought was possible for me. It scares me, because I didn't realize that I'd even had a line I went to before and wouldn't cross.

I have learned, that even though I make mistakes or partially burn a bridge, EVERY single day is a new start. To do things better than I did them the day before. To take advantage of more and build more bridges and make less mistakes.

That I don't have things as figured out as I originally thought. But I'm beginning to think that that's actually OK.

Adopted many of the traits which I despise in my parents. Mainly a need for control.

Trust too much.

I recently learned that feeling dramatic and overemotional is the drive behind my journaling. I've learned to accept this and not worry about how cliche and pretentious I might sound because it's effective in turning my melting pot thoughts into words.

SoulPancake

hand–crafted in Atwater Village

About SoulPancake

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