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Slamming doors in the heat of an argument... I consider myself a very reasonable person, willing to talk through any issue. Slamming a door goes against what I consider to be the aspects of a healthy relationship. Strong, open communication is essential to any healthy, worthwhile relationship. The ability to work on any differences and find middle ground is paramount in achieving balance and harmony, any refusal to do so, especially in such an abrupt manner, leads to disharmony and resentment.
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Just to be clear, the better part of my life revolves around music. I play it constantly and almost always have a guitar in hand. When I say she doensn't enjoy the music I play, that's because I play guitar constantly.That's a bigger peeve than some of you assumed, so I thought I'd give some perspective
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People who live in a bubble and have no idea what happens outside of their little world.
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My guy and I have different musical tastes, but we share and find a middle road.
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My guy and I have different musical tastes, but we share and find a middle road.
Deal breakers? Bad hygiene. Having to drink alcohol in order to cope with normal life situations. Or, having to have alcohol in order to get through a day. Deal breaker.
A man who lies, or is disrespectful ..... deal breaker.
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That's a pretty weak deal breaker. I don't even know if you're any good at playing guitar. She might be covering her ears in self-defense.
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you should try and explain to them they are being narrow minded when it comes to music. as for deal breakers...bad oral hygiene
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If I were available, which I'm not, it would be anyone who doesn't have a spiritual awareness. They wouldn't understand that which is most important to me and I wouldn't understand what drives them either. No need to develop that relationship.
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If this is that final straw, I can only imagine the previous horrors you must have endured.
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If this is that final straw, I can only imagine the previous horrors you must have endured.
Unless of course you are a really sickly camel.
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Right now, it would be anyone who isn't my husband. When I met him, he met almost none of my "criteria" and yet he's perfect for me. Humans can be really superficial sometimes and that needs to be overcome.
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She has to be at least a 6 out of 10, be white, and have wealthy/upper class parents.
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She has to be at least a 6 out of 10, be white, and have wealthy/upper class parents.
Also can't be over 5'8, and should be Christian.
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My wife's deal breaker is cutting your nails anywhere but in the bathroom. Mine's expecting me to sign up to do ALL the crappy household jobs forever. I need a break from taking out the trash as much as she needs a break from doing a chore she hates.
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My wife's deal breaker is cutting your nails anywhere but in the bathroom. Mine's expecting me to sign up to do ALL the crappy household jobs forever. I need a break from taking out the trash as much as she needs a break from doing a chore she hates.
Are you looking for a girlfriend or a clone? You might learn something if you shared your music with each other. We live with different musical tastes--but agree to share and it's great--I learn from her music all the time.
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Anyone who tries to tell me what to do, how to think, or how I feel. The inability to agree to disagree (someone who is snide/condescending about my beliefs). Lack of ambition to better themselves - doesn't have to be college related.
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Well that's kinda harsh. But then again, I once considered disregarding any men who had my brothers' names because that would just be awkward for me. Still considering...
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