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It depends on how much it effects them. Sometimes a secret will burn inside you until you let it out.
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There are occasions when telling someone something may serve no purpose other than hurting them, and it isn't worth it just for the sake of a clean conscience for you. Sometimes you've just got to have the balls to carry your own baggage.
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utterly dependent on the secret and the friend - so,
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utterly dependent on the secret and the friend - so,
please feel free to elaborate and...
bear in mind...
if it is that you have just accidentally pushed your cousin into a shredding machine - better not tell us.
if it is that you are harbouring thoughts of having a different sexual orientation - be sure about it before you tell anyone of your nearest and dearest
if its that you have always secretly yearned to be an Ice Skating Disney character and are about to run away to Florida with a bag full of bubble gum -
don't seek out bobbiesgirl for advice...
don't be a Marlene, but don't be a blabber mouth either. some secrets are best kept - I have a few, and have never regretted not telling my nearest and dearest - what would I achieve?
if the answer to that question doesn't include the notion that they will be better off for knowing... keep schtum.
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One can become very isolated with nobody to confide in. I think Marlene Dietrich was very lonely.
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That's exactly what being a friend is. If one's "friends" are just people one jokes around and parties with, one's life is absent of friends.
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