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You sound like my friend... Good for you on being frank and honest about it, and nowadays, nobody can really say anything against you for it. You've not breached any sacred code or moral boundary, so good onya for all of it.
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All I know, is if a guy wrote this exact post (without viberator) , He would be called a sexist a-hole. afraid of comittment.
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All I know, is if a guy wrote this exact post (without viberator) , He would be called a sexist a-hole. afraid of comittment.
So...whatever
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No problem with that on my part. Except for getting the vibrator to open jars and sh*t like that. I always say that I'm through with men, that they're another species, them WHAM, I meet one that just floors me. Usually happens when I'm single but the divorce papers haven't even been drawn up yet. Jeez. I've lost my mind. Sure as hell wasn't looking for it.
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hell yes it's okay. I'm going through that right now (I'm 18). hehe, but still... Who's business or decision is it but your own? And you have completely legitimate reasons... even if they weren't legitimate I'd still say hell yes.
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Do what feels right for you to do right now.
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Do what feels right for you to do right now.
If you want to be alone right now, that is fine and after a divorce, I don't blame you for not wanting to jump into a new relationship.
However, if the opportunity came about, that is also your choice to jump into it.
One never knows.
What you decide today as far as your individual life as a single person is not bound in cement.
Since you are single, if you want to be right now, be.
If you want to start dating, do.
There are pros and cons in both situations but that's life.
You can use your vibrator whether you're in or out of a relationship :)
He probably asked you, "Why do you want to do that" in regards to, why do you want to be single for the rest of your life.
I don't think (but I don't know your husband nor do I know the entire conversation) he meant you're a woman so you can't. He was just asking, Why?
So do whatever you need to do when you need to do it. You're single, you can choose whether or not you want to date. And it does not need to be a "forever" decision. Maybe today you would rather not date. So what?
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I think you are doing fine. You know what you want, so just know you'll be ok. I guess I'm saying that you are smart and you have all the answers. Nobody else does. Especially your ex. Enjoy! Enjoy your freedom. Enjoy your life!
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There's more to just a relationship than sex, good as well as bad although you seem to be encountering the bad too much here. I'm sure you know this but its worth working for, don't let bad experiences determine how you live the rest of your life.
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Hell, I've been doing that for 22 years. At least I can find the sweet spot. Does that make me a techno-w***e???
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So he got pissed and asked me why would I do that. So I said, listen, sometimes I just want to feel the weight of a man and not have to deal with all of the emotional sh*t that's involved in a relationship. He does it all the time. And tells me about it.
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