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Gay marriage should be legalized. And experimenting always works to determine your sexual orientation. That is if you cannot already tell.
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I'm all for it. As for how you know if your gay is like how you know when your in love. The only difference is the gender of the person you love, that's it. =]
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I sincerely believe that marriage be the same sex should be allowed. The fact that it is held in such a negative light, especially in religous circles, offends me. Marriage is a covenant between man and God, and yet we as man try to belittle it to being a contract between two people. Who are we to decide who is allowed to make a covenant with God? Do we, as his creations, really think we have that right to determine with whom God can have a covenant? The really unfortunate thing is that we have deminished this covenant to a contract between people that holds remedies based on the actions of either party. It is also unfortunate that often times our laws seem to have more bearing on these relationships than human kindnesses, such as the case of not allowing partners into ICU's. We live in a society that once thought women did not have the right to vote, african americans did not have the right to vote, interacial couples could not get married, just to list a few of the social injustices. Through these we have learned and matured and I believe we will manage to do so again when it comes to this topic. Concerning your second question I am not sure how you would know. I am straight, I have always been straight and to be honest can never remember having any doubt about the issue. However, I have had friends that have had to deal with the issue and it took a lot of soul searching on their part. I think really you have to get to a point where you are comfortable with who and what you are. You reach that point where you can love yourself for who you are, not what you think you should become to satisfy anyone other that yourself.
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i disagree with gay marriage, but i have to say your gay when you have homosexual relations, that always sounded reasonable to me.
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i am totally for gay marriage, as for how you know if you are gay or not? im not sure... i think people are born that way so you just know, like i just know im straight
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I am for Gay marriages. I know a few people who are married and are gay. I do not know how you know that you are gay... it's something that I guess you should know naturally.
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As a gay person I can say with fervor that I absolutely do not want gay marriage legalized. Marriage to me is not the sacred institution of religion that it used to be... The whole idea was you're supposed to be together. Forever. For-f#cking-ever. No ifs, ands, or buts. Ball and chain! Shackled to a great wall of despair and calamity! And marriage was supposed to be your way of telling God that you promise to put up with somebody until you keel over and die. Does it mean that anymore? Not so much. Seen divorce rates lately? And if it's not an institution of religion, it's nothing more than, as Homer Simpson would put it, a contractual obligation to love someone. Yes, it would be nice to know that if my girlfriend is in a coma and on life support I'll be able to legally access her bed in the ICU, or have the privilege of wretched marriage devices like alimony, but at the end of the day when I think about what it means, or used to mean, to marry someone, I think of love, and nothing more. I don't need official recognition from a church or the state to know I love someone. Or... to remind myself... "Should gays be allowed to marry? Are you kidding me? After 9/11, this is something to be worried about, now? I'll tell you, as a country, on the list of things we should be bothering with, this one's on page 6, right underneath 'Are We Eating Too Much Garlic as a People?'...the thing I'm worried about the most is, years from now, people are going to come across the Constitution, and they're gonna say, 'Hey! Lookadis! The American people, these people were so fucked up, they actually wrote down what marriage was, so they could remember it." -Lewis Black
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I have gay friends. I've worked with lesbians. They don't bug me. But, I have seen people who take it way to far. I don't care for that kind of interaction.? I think the gay people who take it to a ho' nuv'a lev'a ruin it for me. The mature gay folks out there are okay in my book. For serious gay people, I don't judge them as I wouldn't want them to judge me. Ya know? And for knowing if you're gay or not? I agree with Cragantler.
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i am a straight man who supports gay marriage. i believe people have the right to be gay and if they want to make their partnership official then they should be allowed to do so. and i cant tell you how i exactly know whether im gay or not but i just know. i love women and their womanly parts.
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WE hold these truths to be self evident that ALL men be created EQUAL!!! I think that this is the same battle that minorities in America have been battling since the founding of this country. I believe that this is an issue that the federal government needs to get involved in. If we left the Civil rights, Women’s suffrage, interracial marriage and others up to the states we might still have those same laws.
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Marriage is just an institution of the church system, and as stubborn as the church tends to be when it comes to change (Dark Ages come to mind), change does eventually and inevitably happen. Gay marriage should definitely be as legal and binding and hetrosexual marriage. As for how I know I am not gay, I like boobs... I can't help it.
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I think everyone's at least a little bit gay... probably not gay enough to engage in a sex act with someone of the same sex but a little gay none the less... don't belive me? Why is it that pornography aimed at hetrosexual males often includes good looking well endowed men? ... I rest my case. And as far as marriage goes i've said it before, i'll say it again- Gays have just as much of a right to be miserable as straight people do. Besides, if we make gay marriage legal it'll probably improve divorce statistics. These people have had to fight for it they're less likely to take it for granted.
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Don't know about the gay or not..although I know many gay people that say they know just like we knew we were hetro. I am totally pro gay marriage. Throw the rice, have a reception, sing it from the roof tops FOR it. I can't believe it's not legal.
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