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How did you meet the love of your life, and what was it about him/her that made you fall in love?

I am presently pursuing a romantic relationship (hooked up with eharmony last weekend.... couldn't resist the "free communication" weekend!), and therefore I'll probably be here on Soul Pancake a lot less. (I can hear some of you cheering.) I've never been one for romances, but lately I'm in the mood for romantic stories. Anybody got one?

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ok that last part was a joke... but i do love the boy with all my heart

and to finish my story we are engaged and are getting married on october 23

justin was a kicker on the binham high school football team... i had always followed bingham football even tho i lived 350 miles away... one particular weekend i was able to attend the binham, jordan football game during this game i saw justin kick a 64 yard feild goal... that was the moment i fell in love!!! about 1 year later my brother introduced me to justin... from the moment i met him i knew i wanted to spend my life with that boy...

It was a chance meeting and he offered to help me with my car (mechanic), He had a goofy quality and was literally googly eyed over me in the beginning. I let him persue but we fell madly for each other once we went out. We had a burning passion for each other but took it very slow, which I think makes all the difference for longevity sake.

I met the love of my life In school! He was actually dating someone else when we starting hanging out and being friends. We were best friends for about a year when I decided I'm not going to be on the backburner anymore and took control. I started being assertive and telling him I liked him and he ended up breaking up with his girlfriend because he liked me too! We've been together for about a year and a half now and its been so wonderful. I love him because he treats me with respect and appreatiates me for all of me, not just whats "good" or "attractive". Hes also really nerdy and so nice and I love that about him and I love how smart he is!

Also, to bkmiller - I wish you good luck! I hope this person turns out to be really special! :)

Um...well, I don't know if he's the love of my life yet, cause you know, I have a lot of life ahead of me...hopefully...but anyway, here's mine: I met my BF Shawn when I moved in a few doors down from him in the same apartment, and I sort of had my eye on him from the beginning, cause whoa mama he is hot! ;D And then I tripped down the stairs because I'm very clutzy, and fell down like three flights...and of course everybody in the apartment was like "omg, are you okay?" cause most of them view me as this little kid...they're mostly all old people. And Shawn was one of the people that asked if I was okay, and we've been dating ever since. :)

Now now...BK..... I`d miss you too if you left! And I wish you the best of luck in meeting your someone special!

I met Scott cruising Main Street. We live in a small town and that's what people did on the weekends. Cruise. He was driving a beat up Jetta the color of wet gravel and had a Pantera sticker. I think it was love at first sight. I was 17 and we're still together. I'm turning 30 in 3 weeks.

I met my guy on a dating website too...POF. We randomly chatted and after five minutes I, feeling spontaneous, asked him to meet me, for some sushi and a movie. I think it was love at first sight for both of us, it is a very hard to explain thing, but when I opened my door and we made eye contact for the first time, we both just genuinely smiled so big. And that was the most comfortable first date of my life...we snuggled, and hung out, joked around, kissed, it was so nice. We made it official pretty quickly, after maybe 11 days? That was in October 2008. We live together now :)

Completely by accident. Nothing in particular. But when you see yourself deeply reflected within someone else, you can't deny it~ Love is. And you have to deal with it, in all its terrifying beauty. Love is so much richer than sunshine, roses, and happily ever after. If that what you think love is about, you're selling yourself short. Love completes your death, just as surely as it completes your life. And that's why nothing in the world compares to wholly loving someone. Just my 2¢. Not very romantic, nor much a of story for that matter, so probably not what you wanted. But it's the reality I see nonetheless.

My story, well, actually, stories are that.....During high school, I feel in love with a fun guy. He was a great communicator, and I had FUN....(no sex). During college, I feel in love with my "buddy". He was a great listener and we hung out...I married him and had a great time with him for 17 years - we came to an end and divorce...I choose to remember our time together as soul mates...but we came to an end...That's OK. Today I am remarried for 13 years to a man that makes me laugh, that I consider my partner and equal. So, I have had 3 soul mates. So times, I feel people discounts relationships that ended. I do not. Each fulfilled something in my life that I needed at that particular time and I honor and cherish each relationship knowing love comes in many different shapes, sizes and flavors.

@bkmiller Collinsville, IL

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ok that last part was a joke... but i do love the boy with all my heart

and to finish my story we are engaged and are getting married on october 23

Also, to bkmiller - I wish you good luck! I hope this person turns out to be really special! :)

Now now...BK..... I`d miss you too if you left! And I wish you the best of luck in meeting your someone special!

I met Scott cruising Main Street. We live in a small town and that's what people did on the weekends. Cruise. He was driving a beat up Jetta the color of wet gravel and had a Pantera sticker. I think it was love at first sight. I was 17 and we're still together. I'm turning 30 in 3 weeks.

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