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If I don't get too involved, then it is easy to let go. You simply start to hate the guy in your mind. Then, walk away. You stop thinking about him. Figure out what you would be doing if you didn't know him --- then go do it.
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Thanks everyone for your responses. I really helps! Not an easy decision to make but it gives me hope that no matter what happens I will be ok. :)
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Time heals all wounds. (It also wounds all heels!) I never let go of the good times we had. But I let go of the fantasy we'd get back together, and then the hurt.
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Heartache is brutal. I've worked hard at getting over it and there's no control to be had. Everything would make me cry, I'd drink to forget (don't do that, you end up forgeting the wrong things) write, and generally wallow. Try to find a little, healthy escape. Get a new hobby, something that won't remind you of them. I found yoga and it's good for your body, mind and spirit. It helped me work on myself instead of bitterly reminding myself I wasn't enough.
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Letting go in any aespect is frightening for me. I struggle with it constantly and over the years I have found that Letting Go is not something I do so much as something that comes to me when the time is right. If I feel (not so much consciously) ready to let go I drift aaway from the problem in question. It is a natural separation that takes place when I am fully ready and no sooner. In the time between I conduct my self as civily and repectably as possible. It takes time for e to detatch my emotions from a volitile situation and I cannot control this. I do however take comfort in how I conduct myself in the meantime.
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Have you ever pushed off of shore in a canoe, and floated away? It's kind of like that. If that makes sense.
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it is time when it makes you sad more than it does happy , let it fly right then ..the world has many loves coming your way ..
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