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Hard Count

[life's little lists]

I arise in the morning torn between a desire to improve the world and a desire to enjoy the world. This makes it hard to plan the day. // E. B. White

List the hardest things in life that you have done / continue to do.

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1) Solo parenting

2) Loss of desire to find a "soul mate".

3) Keeping my distance from people who truly mean no harm to me.

1) Overcoming rejection (jobs, people, etc)
2) Coming to terms with the fact that people and situations aren't always what you expected them to be, and being okay with that.
3) Learning life lessons from 1 & 2

Dealing with situations I haven't faced before.
Getting out of my comfort zone.
Being able to talk to strangers.
College.
The future and the "real world".

1. Heal a broken heart.
2. Be honest, even though sometimes I want to just act like everything is cotton candy.
3. Let go.
4. Wake up at 6am.

Recover.
Grieve.
Radical acceptance.
Accept that relationships - family, platonic, or romantic - change and evolve and sometimes aren't meant to last forever.

Forgive
Recover
Remain Authentic

1. talking to a cute guy without having a heart attack
2. learning to be assertive
3. voicing my opinion the way it must be said

Talking to girls!
Doing what's right when sometimes what is wrong looks so much better in the present
Going to work when you hate your job

1.seeing him with her :(
2.having to face reality (things will no longer be the same)
3. staying strong
4.holding a smile next to people I hate
5. understanding people

1. Find Life's path (I just want to adventure)
2. Coming alive in times of loneliness
3. Running my first half marathon..completely un-prepared (collapsing twice)
4. Finding Confidence (Used to be pretty friggen shy)
5. Understanding Women.

1. Parking in between the lines
2. getting out of bed in the morning
3. ignoring 'him'
4. starting a creative writing assignment
5. making it through a 3 hour ballet class

Getting up when I fall, every time.

1. Understand people
2. Deal with death and/or loss
3. Being completely self-confident

1. Coping with losing a loved one
2. Telling myself that nobody is perfect and trying to embrace my imperfections.
3. Finding where I truly belong

becoming free of my mental and social restraints
forgiving my parents
letting myself fall in love
trying to regain my identity after my ex stripped me of it
regaining a sense of trust (still working on that.....)
finding happiness within myself

1. Forgive myself
2. Forgive others
3. Love

Stopping self harm
Seeing a therapist
Accepting that I need medication for my anxiety and depression
Having a long distance relationship
Ending that relationship...
Losing my best friend in the process. This continues to be hard. I do not know if we will ever speak again.
Learning to love again
Maintaining a schedule for Yoga and Meditation
Writing consistently

Hard Count

List the hardest things in life that you have done / continue to do.

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1) Solo parenting2) Loss of desire to find a "soul mate".3) Keeping my distance from people who truly mean no harm to me.

1) Overcoming rejection (jobs, people, etc)2) Coming to terms with the fact that people and situations aren't always what you expected them to be, and being okay with that.3) Learning life lessons from 1 & 2

Dealing with situations I haven't faced before.Getting out of my comfort zone.Being able to talk to strangers.College.The future and the "real world".

1. Heal a broken heart.2. Be honest, even though sometimes I want to just act like everything is cotton candy.3. Let go.4. Wake up at 6am.

Recover.Grieve.Radical acceptance.Accept that relationships - family, platonic, or romantic - change and evolve and sometimes aren't meant to last forever.

ForgiveRecoverRemain Authentic

1. talking to a cute guy without having a heart attack2. learning to be assertive3. voicing my opinion the way it must be said

Talking to girls!Doing what's right when sometimes what is wrong looks so much better in the presentGoing to work when you hate your job

1.seeing him with her :(2.having to face reality (things will no longer be the same)3. staying strong 4.holding a smile next to people I hate5. understanding people

1. Find Life's path (I just want to adventure)2. Coming alive in times of loneliness 3. Running my first half marathon..completely un-prepared (collapsing twice)4. Finding Confidence (Used to be pretty friggen shy)5. Understanding Women.

1. Parking in between the lines2. getting out of bed in the morning3. ignoring 'him'4. starting a creative writing assignment 5. making it through a 3 hour ballet class

Getting up when I fall, every time.

1. Understand people2. Deal with death and/or loss3. Being completely self-confident

1. Coping with losing a loved one2. Telling myself that nobody is perfect and trying to embrace my imperfections.3. Finding where I truly belong

becoming free of my mental and social restraintsforgiving my parentsletting myself fall in lovetrying to regain my identity after my ex stripped me of itregaining a sense of trust (still working on that.....)finding happiness within myself

1. Forgive myself2. Forgive others3. Love

forgiving

Stopping self harmThat still tops my list. It's all I have right now, but it was hard so; yeah.

overcome my fearsstop worrying/being anxiouschill out and relaxlove unconditionallystop being vainstop being judgemental and critical

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